Safety on dating sites

I troll a few large dating sites, 'scambaiting', and occasionally helping real people with 'scammer problems".
I bumped into a nice lady the other day on a large, free, dating site. Her tactic to avoid scammers, was to restrict contact to the methods available within that dating site....embedded chat, and email.
I tried to explain to her that this was a mistake. You can't really determine who are what you are in contact with if you only use 'internal' methods for that site, whether it's a dating site, or facebook.
Why?
When you use 'internal' site contact methods, you lose the ability to check many things...google an email address, and check the IP in an email header that person may send you.
Much of the same goes for people you only know via 'Messenger' type chat, or Skype.

Many scammers know that they can be detected by email, and confine contact to chat, where it is not easy to see an IP of where they are at.
How can you sniff out a scammer, or tell something is very wrong?
You want to be able to check an IP, via an email they send you, to see if they are where they claim to be.
Many West African scammers will claim to be somewhere they are not. In many situations, checking the email headers, will show they are not where they claim to be.
So? You are thinking, 'why does he tell me this? I'm never going to send money or fall in love with a fake person!'
Millions of internet scam victims have thought the same thing!
The longer you maintain contact, even casual contact, with a scammer, the more likely it is you will believe or accept the story they tell, and the identity they claim. You begin to accept....
Make sure you see a live face on cam
Avoid people who will not email you, but only want to 'chat'
Use a disposable email account for contact with unknown people, and be prepared to abandon it
Never give out personal details to strangers, your home phone, address, where you work...
Never send money to somebody you only know from phone calls, or the internet!
Learn to be careful online, and protect yourself. Most social networks and dating sites don't really care about you, or do much to protect you. You must do it. Reverse Email Lookup

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Saucy Dating Blog. New design, social networking updates

Saucy Dating Blog. New design, social networking updates

Saucy Dating is one of the fastest growing site in UK. Now it has big database of registered members, around 4.3. Recently they have made few updates. On this page saucydating.com/uk you can see a new large picture of a kissing couple and I have to say that it looks very attractive. Near the picture you can see registration form with only three options: first name, email address and password.

Apart from this page, Saucy Blog has been updated too. This Wordpress customization is based to WP 3.5 version. What they have changed:

• Now it has 3 columns. 1 – Yahoo based slider that shows recent posts. 2 – Photos of latest members, tags, social buttons, interesting posts and Saucy banner. 3 – Facebook plugin, Twitter widget with latest tweets, latest forum threads from our forum, blogrooll and other links to dating sites, archives.
•  Default style has been changed with new colour scheme and styles formatting.
• Added custom designed header section
• Added custom designed footer section

Now you can also read latest and interesting sexology researches on Saucy Dating blog. This category is updating every week and has informative posts with pictures and diagrams. Information is taken from popular sexology resources.

If you want to see these updates, you just need to register on the site by visiting their homepage. It is absolutely free to register on the site but if you want to use all features, you need to upgrade your account to premium user. By the way, if you are a woman, you can use all site features absolutely free.

Saucy Dating has also mobile version of the site m.saucydating.com/uk/ and you can access it using any of the aforementioned devices. Except these everyone can find latest and interesting dating stuff on Saucy Dating Twitter (https://twitter.com/SaucyDating) and Google+ (https://plus.google.com/105215632203754056743) pages. Mature Dating section has been added to the site navigation too. So if you are older than 40, you can use Saucy Dating.

  

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cutieame2g11@yahoo.com Ghana SCAM

My name is Ametorwu But you can call me Tazir, I am 32 years Old, I am Single with hazel eyes, 5' 9", 120 lbs.,Long Hair and a healthy Lady.Am from Ghana and in Ghana now, Do you know Ghana and have you talk with someone from Ghana before, Well do you have any problem about where am from.. I am self-sufficient, Beautiful, happy, secure, self-confident, psychologically aware, emotionally.Am a student and study nursing in Ghana.. I am Living with my Uncle,mother and a Younger Brother in a Logging house, I am a Ghanaian Both My Parent and Ghanaian I have been In Ghana all My life i am a Hard working lady and very friendly.I have no Kids and Never Married.My Late Father passed away when i was Only 15 years Old well I will say my Father was the Best man i have ever Loved he is so caring,loving,God fearing,respectful and responsible father but i trusted and Believe in God and I know God is Doing is Things In his Own way. I have learn To be a Strong woman From My Father hard working i lost my late father When i was schooling. I have been In a Relationship which end up 2 years Ago because the guy was very unfaithful it has Cost me a lot Of pain and i am now Looking for a Loving God fearing and Responsible man To settle down with that is why i am Here So If you Interested Let get and know More about each other. In any good relationship, there should be trust, communication, understanding, and honesty. Life is a precious gift from God, and it should be lived with love and joy. I enjoy various activities. I can bowl, skate, swim, play chess, checkers, draw, bike riding, a little fishing and crabbing, a little golf, have tried tennis, camping, sports etc. It does not matter.. I am a very average versatile person, and not hard to please. I enjoy the complex as well as the simple things in life.You looking handsome and wonderful in the pic.Hope you like mine to.. Well age is just a number to me.Hope to hear from u soon... Bye For Now Ame.

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prettyame200012@gmail.com cutieame2g11@gmail.com

countrylove01 on connectingsingles Claims to be in NYC cutieame2g11@gmail.com cutieame2g11@yahoo.com prettyame200012@gmail.com

Good day How are you doing today my name is Ame and am 32 years of age single with no kids and never married before. I am a active young lady, with a good sense of humor. I'm looking for a man who will share his interests with me and will let me tell him about my interests.. if you interested in getting to know me you can email me or add me on YM at cutieame2g11 at yahoo dot com....i will be waiting to hear from you and also chat with you... cutieame2g11 Y A H O O . C O M.. cutieame2g11(@y*a*h*o*0*.*c*o*m) OR GMAIL prettyame200012@gmail.com Am on line now.....

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milli6015@yahoo.com SCAMMER

West African scammer using a proxy. milli6015@yahoo.com

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WARNING! 'Visa and travel' scams from Guangdong, CHINA

I keep running into major pockets of these scammers on dating sites. These scams are conducted by West African men, who are residents of the Guangdong Province of China. Primarily they are in the city of Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, and Dongguan. The profiles they set up will indicate the lady is in these cities, or generic area. She will be an asian lady, (Chinese, Filipina, or other) 28-35 years old, Single, no children, and working a domestic, meniall or minor administrative job. (Nanny, caretaker, tutor, salesgirl, clerk, administrative assistant, etc) The girl will be mildly attractive, to pretty. The scammers have multiple pictures of the girl. They usually will have an excuse to not show a face on cam. (Broken, no time to go to cafe, boss is strict, etc) Occasionally they will use a recorded loop of a girl over a webcam, but for short durations. They do have 'Asian' females helping them, usually to talk on the phone. The girl will profess love too quickly, in a few emails, and will want to travel to meet the victim if the victim pays for the trip and visa, via a FAKE 'visa and travel' agency. The emails are sweet. They are possibly 'scripts', like the 'Russian' scammers use. (the same email goes out to many men) The 'Visa and travel' agency will have a website you can look at, but it's a FAKE agency site, set up by the West African scammers. You may also be asked to email or phone an 'agency representative'. You will be emailed a real looking travel itinerary, assorted bills and invoices, but they are FAKE, and no girl will arrive at your local airport, if you fall for this SCAM. They are also doing some other '419' scams via these dating site profiles, as well. Make sure you see a face on cam, and if the girl is in love too quickly....something is not right. NEVER SEND MONEY TO SOMEBODY YOU ONLY KNOW FROM THE INTERNET. Research the REAL 'visa and travel' procedures for your country, and remember, 'poor' asian people do not get visas easily to western nations. Dragonladies.org can help you avoid these scams! Check this forum at Dragonladies for examples of this scam.

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lovelinda901@gmail.com malwine.norgbey@yahoo.com

Another GHANA Scammer, using stolen pictures of 'Julie'. Her pictures are in heavy use by various scammers, and she is well aware of it, and trying to inform people about the problem. lovelinda901@gmail.com malwine.norgbey@yahoo.com YulianaRomancescam.com

Remember, never send money to somebody you only know from the internet, or phone calls.

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