Free, safe dating sites online

There are only two free dating sites I can recommend that are fairly safe, datingnmore.com, and asianlonelyhearts.com.
Most dating sites, free or otherwise, do not bother to do much checking of new profiles, or monitoring activity on the site. By 'monitoring' activity, I do not mean reading your messages, or spying, but there are usually ways to watch site activity without invading your privacy, and scammers do tend to operate in predictable ways, and usually exhibit some known traits.
Most of the knowledge a site operator needs to have to spot these scammers is pretty easily acquired. You just have to be interested in protecting your members, and operating a 'clean' site. Most dating sites don't do this.
Datingnmore.com is a large, free, safe dating site, owned and operated by a friend of mine, who is probably the leading expert in internet romance scams, in the world. The site is friendly, and has an extensive array of members from throughout the world.
AsianLonelyhearts.com is a new, free, small 'Asian' dating site I am involved with. We hope to offer the best free 'Asian' dating site available.
We need new members, and really need new female members.
It will take a while for Asianlonelyhearts to become a busy, active site, but we prefer to build the site honestly, and with real people. Why waste your time on fakes, scammers, and players?
Please join, and help us build this site.

So? You look at these two sites and think they are boring, and not as exciting as most dating sites? Do you realize you are used to typical CRAP found on dating sites? Fake profiles of half naked people. Stolen pictures of celebrities. Hundreds or thousands of profiles of people you try to contact, but never reply? ( they're fake profiles!)
Do you think PAYING for a site offers you some safety and value? It usually doesn't! The scammers operate on virtually every site, paid, or free.
The one exception in paid 'Asian' dating I can offer is Christian Filipina Dating. Christian-Filipina is one of the few sites that actively checks new profiles, and has some unique methods to screen members. Give it a try if you prefer a 'paid' site, or try all of the sites I suggest!
Regardless of which online site you use, please remember: Never send money to somebody you only know from the internet, or phone calls!
Always expect to see a face on webcam. Do not accept 'no cam' and pictures as proof you are in contact with the person they claim they are.
Keep the age gap reasonable. Yes, you may know of an 80 year old man with a 20 year old Asian bride, but that combination usually doesn't last long or work out, and somebody usually ends up broke and unhappy. (and it's not the girl who was broke to start with)
Be careful, and good luck.
You can find a 'fantasy' romance online very easily. Sometimes the fantasy is fairly short.

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celestina.wilson1@yahoo.com SCAM

Hello handsome how are u doing today i hope u are doing good well am Celestina by name am single with no kids am 32 years of age and am a student who is studying nursing am looking for someone who is honesty caring and truthfulness to spend the rest of my life with so i will love to tell u more about me and show u more pic of me so i will love u to add me on yahoo now this my yahoo ID celestina.wilson1@yahoo.com Hope to hear from u soon handsome....

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cd_pinkpants69@yahoo.com SCAM

Hello babe i read your profile and i may say you sound perfect, i would like to get to know you babe, i am beautiful and attractive single lady of 29 i am looking for something new in life..if you are interested add me at yahoo messenger cd_pinkpants69@yahoo.com xoxoxoxoxox

Scammer using a stolen picture of porn model 'Ann Angel'.

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Philppine-singles.com KEEP OUT

Philippine-singles.com is a paid dating site, that spams message boards, and has a lot of fake and scammer profiles. My advice to somebody looking for an 'asian' dating site...is keep away from Philippine-singles.com!

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Looking for a free, safe dating site?

AsianLonelyHearts.com is a new, small, free dating site, that will be safe from most scammers. This site is operated by an expert in internet romance scams, who has the good of the members at heart. Please give it a try, if you are an Asian lady, or a gentleman, interested in Asian ladies. AsiaLonelyhearts.com has men waiting to meet the right lady, and is in need of nice Asian ladies as members, who are tired of the scams, and games you find on most sites.Try AsianLonelyHearts.com for a free, safe, Asian dating site!

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joyanita68@gmail.com SCAM

West African scammer using stolen picture of Taiwanese model.

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Zealdate.com Full of fakes, and fraud!

Keep away from zealdate.com! zealdate is full of fake ladies, using stolen pictures of asian models and celebrities. You will have to pay to communicate with the fake ladies. You are not in contact with the lady in the pictures. The pictures are stolen. You will waste time, and money if you use zealdate.com!

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Asianlonelyhearts.com New, scam free site!

Asianlonelyhearts.com is a new, free dating site, set up by a scambaiting friend of mine. He needs members to get it started. The site is free, and as 'scam free' as possible. AsianLonelyHearts.com

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soniajeff39@yahoo.com SCAM

soniajeff39@yahoo.com

am Sonia 26 years old single never married,im from Arizona schooling from oxford university UK,Well,i will like to know more about you to,Thanks Sonia

Good Morning Honey,i wonder why i did here from you since all this while i hope your Ok,i was thinking if you dont want me to meet you in person because you never say anything about my coming,i will like to see you before going back to school and will have to both talk over it,Thanks Sonia

i travel to my uncle place of work in Africa because school is not in session for now,i can travel but i dont know how you want it,Thanks Sonia

i will like to travel may be next weekend but i cant afford all the money for now,buying ticket gonna cost me $1,450 and i dont have all to that now i only have $350 for now i cant afford to buy ticket now

am on desk top here dear and you gonna see me soon,i have to forward you my uncle driver info here,
Honey use the information below,is my uncle driver information .
RECEIVERS NAME: EHI VICSON
ADDRESS: NO. 8 ORISHEL STREET IKEJA LAGOS NIGERIA
TEXT QUESTION: DAY?
TEXT ANSWER: NIGHT
Honey please make the payment via western union outlet nearest to you and immediately you make the payment kindly send the MTCN number information to my Email so that i can send my uncle driver to the bank immediately,honey am really sorry to making you worried ok,I love you ,I miss my man so bad,Thanks Sonia

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lovescott74@yahoo.com SCAM

lovescott74@yahoo.com
Uses stolen pictures of porn model 'Next door Nikki'
brownalis62 at fishmeetfish.com

on my opinion Relationship is The Ship,You are Captain... you are leader.. i will go step by step.. my man , i am looking for you!!!!!!! I want to meet a sociable and affectionate man. I want my man to be an attentive, kind and caring person. I hope that he will be a romantic person. I wish to feel nobleness, trembling and attention to me in order to understand with my soul and my heart that he is the man in this world for me and also reach me on lovescott74@yahoo.com

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Are you looking for a Filipina wife, online?

The Philippines is both home to some of the hardest working people in the world, as well as a large number of scammers. The Philippines is the third major source of internet scams, along with the former Soviet Union countries, and countries in West Africa.

Here are some suggestions for weeding out the 'problem' ladies, and avoiding scams:

NEVER send money to somebody you only know from the 'net, or phone calls. NEVER!
A common scam via chat or email from the Philippines are 'emergency' type scams.
'I need money for rent'
'I need money for the electricity'
'My mother needs an operation'
'My sister needs medicine'
'A typhoon destroyed my house'
'I have no money for food'

and so on....

The internet is not free, or computers, also, in the Philippines. If the filipina has money to use an internet cafe, or money to support a home PC with internet connection.....she is not starving!
Some filipinas earn a living, or pick up spending money doing this. Don't be a chump!
A lady who hits you up for money, often in the first chat, or within the first few chats, is not serious about landing a western Husband.

Expect and demand to see a face on webcam!
You are going to feel pretty stupid when you find out you expressing love for a gay man, ladyboy, or a dumpy pinay housewife with 5 kids, who are using stolen pictures of a cute, younger lady, aren't you?
It is also possible, and more common, for scammers to feed a recording of a pretty lady over the webcam, you need to learn some tricks to detect this.
The messageboard at Dragonladies.org can help you!

Look for a Filipina with a 'normal' job.
This means she is not online day and night, (the internet is her job, right?) and is less likely to hit you up for money. Likewise, avoid the ones online, too much.
Be aware this is no divorce in the Philippines.
There is only annulment, which is costly. Some filipinas are online, hoping some western man will foot the bill. Sadly, the cost of an annulment is equal to a year or more of average wages in the Philippines, and the proceedings don't always end well. There are some very nice 'separated' ladies, but be careful, and think hard before you help them with annulment costs.
It's not uncommon for a husband in the Philippines to abandon a wife and family, and start another.
It's also not uncommon for the missing husband to reappear when he finds out the wife has a western suitor, and there may be adultery charges, or bribes to face. Be warned!It's not fair for the ladies, but it's not our country, and we can't change it.

Don't fall in love with a porn site 'cam girl'.
This almost always ends up in trouble. They make a living at manipulating men. You may think you are 'rescuing' her from a sordid life, but too often, they don't really want to be rescued. Many are married or have a boyfriend they don't tell you about..as well as children. Some will take you to a cleaners, coo lovingly at you on cam, and in emails, and laugh behind your back, while handing the money you sent them, to the real husband or boyfriend.

So you want to 'help' her financially, or her family?
This is another problem area, and even some 'good' girls can get out of hand.
Don't consider giving any money until you have met in person.
If you are in a serious relationship, that will lead to marriage, then you can consider helping with a modest amount.
Be warned, a western boyfriend or husband is considered to be a family asset. 'Family' will come out of the woodwork wanting handouts, or financial help.
This is somewhat cultural, but abused when a 'kano' is involved.
You need to be aware of the real income, and living expense where the girl lives, and not be taken advantage of.
The girl and family were probably not starving before you met her, It is nice to help the family with a modest amount of money, and expected of you to replace the money she was earning and sending to the family, but be careful.
This is not being 'cheap'. You can't buy love, but too often one of the problems in a western/filipina marriage or relationship, is the outstretched hands of the extended family.

Paid dating sites don't seem to be any safer.
I suggest you use 'free' dating sites, but with caution, and be prepared to walk away from a 'problem' lady.
Datingnmore.com is a safe, free site, run by an anti-scam expert, and has an array of real, asian ladies.
I suggest you try datingnmore.com!

Keep the age gap reasonable!
Yes, you will see old men with young filipinas, and you will be told it is culturally acceptable. Actually, it's culturally 'understood'.
The old man means money, and maybe will be a prized new member of a poor Pinoy family, as long as the money lasts.
Research the procedures for getting a Visa for the lady to your country, and don't get tricked by 'visa' scams, or shortcuts.
In the USA, you will need to meet the lady in person, before you can apply for a visa for her.
Some scams surround taking 'shortcuts' to a visa...avoid these.
'I can come there on a tourist or business visa....and we can marry'.
Illegal, improbable, and you are setting yourself up for a scam, or severe problems with Immigration.

If you are a US Citizen, marriages or prospective marriages between a Man and a much younger filipina, are screened more seriously at the Consulate in Manila.

Let's look at this realistically...how long do you think a 20 year old Filipina is going to stick around in a marriage to a 60-70 year old man? How long will listening to her sing along with 'Justin Bieber' off key be charming?
Many young asian 'brides' come to the USA, and meet with abuse at the hands of the older husband, and or lose interest in the old man as soon as they get a green card.

Green card scams

They're hard to avoid. Some Filipinas willingly seek out 'marriages of convenience' and pay $20-30000 US, just to get legal residency.
Do you want to be an easy way for some enterprising Pinay to get a green card?
It's possible for her to claim abuse, and be home free for a green card on her own, (Without your help) almost as soon as she lands in the US on a K1 or married visa.
There are more provisions and loopholes that help the foreign bride, than the US Citizen husband, and many of them know every one of them.
I'm not condoning abuse of the lady, or abuse of the US Citizen husband. Both need to be careful!

One reason for my work as a 'scambaiter' over the years is to help real and decent people. I'm happy when two people meet via the bizarre mess we call the internet, and move on to live a happy life together.

The internet allows us to meet new and maybe exotic people we'd not normally have a chance to. Use it carefully!

Check out Dragonladies.org for more help with 'Asian' online dating, and scams!

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WARNING! 'Visa and travel' scams from Guangdong, CHINA

I keep running into major pockets of these scammers on dating sites. These scams are conducted by West African men, who are residents of the Guangdong Province of China. Primarily they are in the city of Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, and Dongguan. The profiles they set up will indicate the lady is in these cities, or generic area. She will be an asian lady, (Chinese, Filipina, or other) 28-35 years old, Single, no children, and working a domestic, meniall or minor administrative job. (Nanny, caretaker, tutor, salesgirl, clerk, administrative assistant, etc) The girl will be mildly attractive, to pretty. The scammers have multiple pictures of the girl. They usually will have an excuse to not show a face on cam. (Broken, no time to go to cafe, boss is strict, etc) Occasionally they will use a recorded loop of a girl over a webcam, but for short durations. They do have 'Asian' females helping them, usually to talk on the phone. The girl will profess love too quickly, in a few emails, and will want to travel to meet the victim if the victim pays for the trip and visa, via a FAKE 'visa and travel' agency. The emails are sweet. They are possibly 'scripts', like the 'Russian' scammers use. (the same email goes out to many men) The 'Visa and travel' agency will have a website you can look at, but it's a FAKE agency site, set up by the West African scammers. You may also be asked to email or phone an 'agency representative'. You will be emailed a real looking travel itinerary, assorted bills and invoices, but they are FAKE, and no girl will arrive at your local airport, if you fall for this SCAM. They are also doing some other '419' scams via these dating site profiles, as well. Make sure you see a face on cam, and if the girl is in love too quickly....something is not right. NEVER SEND MONEY TO SOMEBODY YOU ONLY KNOW FROM THE INTERNET. Research the REAL 'visa and travel' procedures for your country, and remember, 'poor' asian people do not get visas easily to western nations. Dragonladies.org can help you avoid these scams! Check this forum at Dragonladies for examples of this scam.

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Yourbuddy24.com Warning

This dating site appears to be set up to make money by charging men for messages. I joined with a 'baiting' profile, and had messages right away from a too young 'hottie' who was encouraging me to communicate solely through the site, via short messages. She would not give me an email address, or phone number. The site gives you 10 free messages at the start, which will be quickly used up, and then you pay. You can also earn more free messages by entering your cell phone number, but I advise against, due to the apparent fraudulent business mode of this site. Keep away from yourbuddy24.com! Many of the pictures I see on the profiles are stolen. Don't waste your time and money. KEEP OUT.

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Lilydating.com More fraud than initially imagined

Dragonladies.org has been checking out lilydating.com, and finding overwhelming evidence of FRAUD.
Lilydating thread at Dragonladies.org
You really need to be careful on dating sites, while there are few actual fraudulent dating sites, like lilydating, every dating site has some scammers on them. Protect yourself.
Learn how to spot the scammers, never send money to somebody you only know from the internet!
Guys, I have been to China several times, and was married to a Chinese lady. Young Chinese 'hotties' do not look for old men online, as they do in some other Asian countries.
Most of the pictures at lilydating are stolen, and of models, actresses, or other celebrities.

It's unlikely you will talk to a real lady on lilydating who is interested in any other than cheating you.

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garrisonmike54@yahoo.com

This is a WEST AFRICAN scammer, pretending to be a US SOLDIER in Iraq. He claims to be an officer, but the stolen pictures he uses show an enlisted man.
Never send money to somebody you only know from the internet.
Demand to see the face of a person you meet online on a webcam, before you accept he or she is the person in the pictures they use.
Never send money!


See the following sites for more information:

http://romancescam.com
http://dragonladies.org
http://scamwarners.com

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kassala.nancy@yahoo.com scammer

kassala.nancy@yahoo.com

Scammer, West Africa

Don't send money!

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annakotenze@yahoo.com, SCAM

annakotenze@yahoo.com
IP: 64.247.17.61

I am intelligent, ambitious, kind, tactful, sensitive, loving and caring. I treat people with respect, understanding and tolerance. I have my own opinion, I appreciate others’ opinions. I accept people and reality as they are.
In general I am a quiet person but sometimes I can be naughty. I am not capricious and easy to be with, an I am a good listener. I am caring and a kind person

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elena.pekt@gmail.com

Hello my new friend .

I am very glad, that you became interested by me. I will try, that you have not been disappointed in me and have learnt more concerning me. But I as would like to study you better. I ask, that you wrote concerning you directly in more details. You see "the First sight" allows to see only that is obvious. And when you study people better, character traits, sights can change, and it is cardinal.

I will well inform you a little concerning me directly.

As you know, my name - Elena. Excuse me if I do many errors in the letter. If to you something is not clear, you ask me again.

Well time has arrived to continue history concerning itself. My age of 24 years, growth: 168, weight: 51 kg. I never was married and, hence, unfortunately, I have no children. But I would like to have the child. I yet do not know, how many I would like to have children, I while in it was not defined. I have no bad habits, I do not smoke, and I do not drink alcohol, if only in small quantity on holiday. From alcohol I drink only red wine. From food I prefer the Russian kitchen.

I wish to find the person who would love and respected me. I think, that good relations between the man and the woman should be constructed on trust and respect to each other. I think, that we should learn each other better that our relations were stronger.

Please, also inform me concerning you directly. I do not search for the friend on correspondence.

I search for the special person to become my best friend, to develop true love, and to marry.

If you speak with me for the sake of entertainment, please, do not spend for nothing time.

I wish to be with you frank, therefore you also should be frank with me!!!

On character I the cheerful person, try to enjoy each moment of my life and to overcome with a smile all difficulties of my lonely life. In leisure I like to go to cinema and to listen to music of various directions on we wash mood.

Than you like to be occupied in leisure?

Also I very much like to prepare, to bake various tasty pies to tea. Usually I like to apply slightly imagination in cooking.

I would like to set to you some questions.

Why you have decided to find the friend through the Internet?

You long search for love on the Internet?

On it I finish the letter, and very much I wait your answer.
Elena

The Bat! (v4.0.11) UNREG

91.144.161.135 (Mari El)

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ka-asy@yandex.ru

Hi my friend John!
I'm glad so much to receive your answer again! It's very interesting
for me to read your messages, from them we are learning more about
ourself, and I begin know more about you, John. My dear friend, of
course, may be you want learn about our correspondence, about
correspondence's essence too, really? As I want to tell that I have
decided to get acquainted through an Internet due of my girlfriend
Sofia which about a floor of year back has gotten acquainted with the
foreigner Peter, I have said you about this earlier.
John, may be, possible, we will together in the future time, may
be I would like to look the marriage too, if you will want this, I do
not want to hide this so important fact, but we must to learn more
things about each other more and more, it will reasonably and
correctly, really, John? I hope that you will agree with me with
this fact too. Please, tell me about this, ok? But in my opinion,
again and again, we must learn about each other more and more, I
repeat this! Please, agree with me, John! My dearest friend
John, I would like to tell you about my family. I want to say to
you that I have a large family too. This are my mom Marina, my daddy
Pavel too. Also I have two sisters. They are Katya and Masha. My
sister Katya is 21 years old. But Masha is smaller sister between me
and Katya too, Masha is 10 years old. On professions my mom is a
seller in the shop, and my dad is an engineer on the factory. My
sister Katya is a student of the university, she is studing on the
lawyer, and Masha is a schoolgirl. Our family are living without any
conflicts too, we have a good understanding between our members of our
family. Because, I think that our parents gave to us a good education.
I think that it's so good and I'm so proud that we have my mom and my
daddy. Also I want to say to you that I live with my family in one
apartment. Also I want to tell that I have consulted with my parents
about the account my acquaintances with you through the Internet, they
have estimated it as positively because they care about my future life
of course. My parents would want that I have a happy life, and would
want that I will find my man. As I told you earlier, I have never been
married. As already I spoke to you earlier, I work as a waiter in the
bar here in Cheboksary City. It's a perfect and cosy bar. My job is
very pleasant for me, people in our city are kind, and visitors of the
cafe are not roughness to us, certainly there are cases when the
visitors are not correct with us and spoil mood, but it happens very
seldom. I'm very interested to learn about your work, John, and
what do you do in free from work time? During our weekends, in my free
time, we are with my girlfriends, also with Peter and Sofia
sometime, go for a walk to the city, we like to sit in cafe too for a
cup of tea. I like my girlfriends very much, especially my best
girlfriend Sofia. She is as native sister for me! By the way I want to
say to you that Sofia works as a waiter in our bar. Also I want to say
to you that Sofia and Peter are living in Cheboksary City now. Sofia
have visited Peter to Denmark at last time, Peter asked Sofia
to visit in Denmark him after that when they have understood that they
love each other. I remember, Sofia was so happy in this time. They
lived together during two month in Denmark. And then they have came to
Russia, to Cheboksary City too, simply, Sofia said to Peter that
she have missed about her parents, and that she want to visit on some
time her parents, and they came to Cheboksary from Denmark. They are
very happy together, they love each other very much, I envy to Sofia
and Peter slightly:) and also, of course, we meet with each other
sometimes and spend a lot of time together. We are so good friends!
Also I want to say to you that I have never been outside of Russia, I
have never been in an other countries, but I would like to travel at
once, it's so romantical, I think:) Well, John, I must to finish
my e-mail to you, I hope that we will continue to correspond with each
other and you will tell me much more about yourself, and I will try to
tell about myself as more as possible in future e-mails. I want to ask
you about more things, John, and I hope that you will understand
my questions and will answer me for them. I want to learn more about
your country, please, tell me about your family, about your friends. A
great hello to you from my family, my friends Sofia and Peter too.
I hope to see your message soon. Bye-bye...

GOD BLESS YOU,
YOUR RUSSIAN FRIEND,
Ekaterina

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joysearching4love@yahoo.com NIGERIAN SCAM

IP: 41.219.203.77
JOY MOORE

Hello John,


Thanks for the interest you have shown to me as a matter of fact i am very happy to read from you i really enjoy reading your mail they are interesting and lovely all the words in your mails make me happy and smile... i will want you to know that i am an intelligent,honest,romantic,spontaneous,caring with a big heart,self motivated,secure,expressive,lady who is looking for a Honest man on earth to spend all her life time with.

This remind me of the sad day in my life when i lost all my family in a motor accident when they are traveling for a Xmas holiday i was 12 years old when this happen....i don't like saying this but it is part of me because i like to be free with the person am going to marry...i have been so unhappy ever since that has happen to me and ever since then i have been living in with my granny ....

I am looking for a Honest man who will put a smile on my face and make me happy forever, the man that will be kind, caring, loving and understanding..i know that man are very wicked but i know that GOD is going to send my own wonderful and caring loving man to me ....it has been so difficult for me ever since i lost my family . but i am still saying a big thank you to God because i am still i live. i would like to stop here because i am crying as am typing .

I want you to know that i am also looking for a long term relationship that will last forever, am also looking for a Kind, Caring, Loving. Faithful , Honest and understanding man to spend the rest of my life with.

MY HATES

I hate people that lie, drugs addict, thieves,

MY LIKES

i like people that are straight forward , i also like people that are truthful and kind, i am looking for a lovely man that will love and take good care of me forever , The man that will be caring, loving, kind, trustful, and understanding

KINDLY ANSWER SOME OF MY QUESTION?

1 : WHERE DO YOU LIVE?
2 : DO YOU GO FOR LOOK OR PERSONALTY?
3 : WHAT IS YOUR LIKE ?
4 : WHAT YOUR DISLIKE?
5 : HAVE YOU EVER BEEN MARRIED?
6 : CAN YOU TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF
7 : DO YOU HAVE KIDS?
8 : DO YOU WANT KIDS
9 : HOW OLD ARE YOU?
10 : HOW DID WE GET TO MEET?


I will be looking forward to read a mail from you with the answer of the questions i asked ....

Hoping to read from you soon.

Joy...

This is a MALE, Nigerian scammer,using stolen pictures! Do not send money!

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