Free, safe dating sites online

There are only two free dating sites I can recommend that are fairly safe, datingnmore.com, and asianlonelyhearts.com.
Most dating sites, free or otherwise, do not bother to do much checking of new profiles, or monitoring activity on the site. By 'monitoring' activity, I do not mean reading your messages, or spying, but there are usually ways to watch site activity without invading your privacy, and scammers do tend to operate in predictable ways, and usually exhibit some known traits.
Most of the knowledge a site operator needs to have to spot these scammers is pretty easily acquired. You just have to be interested in protecting your members, and operating a 'clean' site. Most dating sites don't do this.
Datingnmore.com is a large, free, safe dating site, owned and operated by a friend of mine, who is probably the leading expert in internet romance scams, in the world. The site is friendly, and has an extensive array of members from throughout the world.
AsianLonelyhearts.com is a new, free, small 'Asian' dating site I am involved with. We hope to offer the best free 'Asian' dating site available.
We need new members, and really need new female members.
It will take a while for Asianlonelyhearts to become a busy, active site, but we prefer to build the site honestly, and with real people. Why waste your time on fakes, scammers, and players?
Please join, and help us build this site.

So? You look at these two sites and think they are boring, and not as exciting as most dating sites? Do you realize you are used to typical CRAP found on dating sites? Fake profiles of half naked people. Stolen pictures of celebrities. Hundreds or thousands of profiles of people you try to contact, but never reply? ( they're fake profiles!)
Do you think PAYING for a site offers you some safety and value? It usually doesn't! The scammers operate on virtually every site, paid, or free.
The one exception in paid 'Asian' dating I can offer is Christian Filipina Dating. Christian-Filipina is one of the few sites that actively checks new profiles, and has some unique methods to screen members. Give it a try if you prefer a 'paid' site, or try all of the sites I suggest!
Regardless of which online site you use, please remember: Never send money to somebody you only know from the internet, or phone calls!
Always expect to see a face on webcam. Do not accept 'no cam' and pictures as proof you are in contact with the person they claim they are.
Keep the age gap reasonable. Yes, you may know of an 80 year old man with a 20 year old Asian bride, but that combination usually doesn't last long or work out, and somebody usually ends up broke and unhappy. (and it's not the girl who was broke to start with)
Be careful, and good luck.
You can find a 'fantasy' romance online very easily. Sometimes the fantasy is fairly short.

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Lilydating.com FRAUD Keep away from this site!

Lilydating.com is a paid Chinese operated dating site, which has a high percentage of female profiles using stolen model pictures. Lilydating.com also recruits members by spamming men on other dating sites, and requesting they join the paid site to communicate with the pretty woman, in the stolen picture they will send to the man. There is a network of large, fraudulent dating sites that operates the same way, and lilydating may be part of this network, and a new incarnation of this network. Guys, my best guess is you are not in contact with the pretty girls in the pictures, no matter how much you pay for membership, or contact privileges Never pay for 'in house' translation on a dating site. If 'she' can't speak your language, what real chances do you have for a relationship, and there are many fraudulent sites built upon YOUR willingness to be defrauded, and your ignorance. The source of many Asian model pictures are easily found, using various image search engines. Please, do not accept pictures as proof you are in contact with the person, in those pictures. Expect to see 'that face' on a webcam, and often. Never send money to somebody you only know from the internet. For more information, and help, with internet romance scams from Asia, visit Dragonladies.org

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erickawanteddaddy Filipina cam beggar/scammer

Cute girl, claims to be a first year nursing student, also a 'working' student. The problem? Her job, cleaning toilets at school, doesn't pay enough, or allows her to 'focus' on her studies. She asks for 5500 Pesos, to pay her tuition or she won't be able to take an exam...in 3 days. OK. Begging? She also offers to do 'anything' if she is helped, and suggests she will rent a private room for a 'special cam chat'. During the chat she hints at 'favours' if the male baiter visits her city.


ericka_mike60@yahoo.com

Name for WESTERN UNION money to be sent to:
EVANGELINE CADUNGOG
71 CABANTAN MABOLO CEBU CITY PHIL 6000
+639222338827



Don't send money to these girls! Many are making a living at this, and are not students, or need money for medical treatment....or starving! True to 'scammer form', they always want money by Western Union, Moneygram, or the regional Xoom. Why? They can pick up the money in any city in the country you send it to, often with little or no ID. You will never know who actually picked up your money!

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ladylili2007@gmail.com More crap!

Hello my dear XXXXX !!!


How are you doing there??I hope everything is ok and you have a lot of reasons to smile!!!

At least this is what I am doing now. I know we have written to each other only several

letters but I must honestly say that you have captured my attention. I can't explain this.

But who ever could explain women's logic or way of their deeds? I guess never and nobody)

So even if you ask me how is that possible I will honestly say to you: I don't know.

I am just thinking about you more than it is needed and

I am curious about you more than it is expected)))

Dear XXXX, I would like to be everything you want, but just to be with you!!!

I make me feel so special, you know how to treat your woman!!!

you know, it was my dream to meet such a man like you! I can still believe that it has

come true!


My sweetheart, with each letter we explore each other more and more and I can't help being

pleased with this.

John, I will close by now but I want you to know that I am looking forward to your soon reply

with enormous impatience!


Yours only Liliya




Note: this is a 'script', pre-written letters used be scammers, with 'my' name inserted. I'm responding with nonsense, which they don't read. I've even attached some totally unrelated pictures, which they don't look at.



Example of 'my' letters...

My wetness, my throbsome, my Lili my frilly smelly dumpling. My beautiful compost heap. Consume me with your heat. Let us rot together. I live entirely for you alone. I want your body. I want it now. Can we not comingle, humungously yet languidly in lolling bliss roll? Come! Words fail me. But Come, Come, oh yes! Come! Your tauntingly teasing titbits trouble my tortured tailings. I wish to exude lovingly on your person. Life is too short to contemplate consequence. Let us pleasure ourselves now! Be open with me, as I am with you. Wide open my harbour, my refuge, my prison! Enough of mere words. We must act, and act now. Play me. Please be mine my swoon.

Who is pulling this scam? Small groups of MALE criminals!

Don't send money to somebody you only know from the internet!

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ladylili2007@gmail.com 'Thinking of you'

An email arrives from this scammer. Please note, this is a 'script', that is, a pre-written, series of letters, sent out to many men, with just the name of the individual man inserted.

Hello dear NAME DELETED!

Thank you for your lovely answer which I liked a lot! You are so hot
man, you know how to treat your woman! I am glad to have found such man!
I just hope you are serious as I am and your feelings are the same
as mine. I know we can start something special everything depends just
of us and how open we will be to each other. In this case we could be
a perfect partners.
You know, I could to describe myself as child, whose eyes are filed
with optimism and curiosity. I have never try to use Internet before for
dating and I am happy now because I have met you.
You know, honey, I was feeling myself so lonely. I dream to have
beloved man near. I think how nice it would be to feel the touch of
his skin and to smell his hair. His kisses will be sweeter than honey,
and this thought drives me crazy. To be able to wake up next to him every
day will be such an amazing miracle, I will not be able to contain my joy.
John, maybe it is you? I would love it a lot.
Unfortunately, Ukrainian men don't value their women at all. But
everyone in world knows Ukrainian women are well educated, intelligent.
They would never prefer their career over their family.
Second fact, Ukrainian women are faithful wife. Always thinking about
her family, husband, children and her home. They cook very well and
prefer homemade foods over fast food. As for me I like to cook very
much, I hope you will be able to taste my dishes like borsh :-) I know
you will like it. As all Ukrainian women I will give all my love,
care and support to my man.
Honey, I want to ask you some questions and you can you ask me
everything you want:
What are your vision of true love?
If you could travel to anywhere in the world for a holiday, where would
you go and why?
If we ever met, what would you like us to do on our first night?
So, I see my letter is too long already, I just wanted to open myself
for you expect the same from you. Let's be honest, open and trust each
other from the beginning. Send you my pictures and waiting for yours.
With all my love
Yours Liliya

The pictures are probably stolen, and may not depict anyone involved in this scam.
Don't send money to somebody you only know from the internet!


IP:94.158.32.22 (Lugansk)

The Bat! (v4.0.14) Professional

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ElenaKrasivaya@googlemail.com

This is a 'Russian' romance scammer, in the initial phase. The letter is sent out by a group of male criminals, usually in the Mari El republic.

Hello XXXX

I am very pleased, that you have answered my short
The message. Excuse me, that I so During long time I did not answer you and
Did not think, that you will answer me. I awfully understand the Internet
In a computer and system. Therefore I am grateful to my girlfriend. As
She has slammed me, write here. She has found the good person through
The Internet. Now they have concluded a marriage and happily live in
Germany. The Russian men cope only in satisfaction
Pleasures. Many of them strongly wish some alcohol and drugs . I read about
Big Familiar through the Internet. But I all as could not dare to
Write to whom - that. I have no any computer in my house. Yes, it - is valid
Pity... I cannot answer you during the same moment as you. And I am courageous
To write the short letter to you and for me that you have answered was
With unexpected. It is very pleasant for me!!! I want to tell in
Once I search for it. I search for the friend, and can and more. All
It because I am lonely also I does not find Understanding in my city. I
Had in a life of 2 serious attitudes. Last have been finished in November 2004.
First my attitudes were with the person whom I have acquainted when
I studied at Technical University. When I have reached his house, me
Have learned, that other woman waits for the child from him.
The second attitudes to me should be finished, as my person , which I
Living very much many see and beaten me, it did not respect me. It sees many
From alcohol and constantly used fists against me! And now I cannot find
Understanding in our society. Certainly our city, big and it not such
And the problem to find the partner, but also something me stops all. I
Have decided to find the partner through the Internet, and I was really
Pleased, that you have written to me the letter in the answer. It - a
It is a little about myself and about what where I live. To me 28. My birthday-
On okteber, 1980. My height - 5 foots 6 inches. My weight - 130
Pounds. It will be for certain probably in a photo which I to you I
To send. How concerning you my photo, I hope it to you, it is pleasant?
I live in Russia, in city Ivanovo. You heard about it? It - very much
Ancient city. Ivanovo is located in 750 kilometers from Moscow. Ivanovo
The big and well-known city in Russia, it is located on the river
Volga. I have higher education. I began my formation
In high school, in Ivanovo. After I have finished it, I have
The entered Economic Ability of Technical University. I have finished it 2
Years ago. Now I work as the bookkeeper. I am borrowed in financial
Affairs of our firm. This firm, not so big. I work here not so for a long time
Time, approximately 4 months. Within the working day I can use a computer and write
Letters. It is more convenient for me. I really would like to know
Your interests , your race , languages which you speak, a hobby? Tell to me
Small is more than bats about you. I also shall tell to you more about me in
The following letter. I send you my pictures. I hope, that my letter will not be
Break you. I shall wait for your letter and your picture with
Impatience. But if you are not interested, lower me some words. It
Important for me.
I shall wait for your letter tomorrow.
Congratulations.
Your Russian girlfriend Lena.

The Bat! (v4.0.24) Professional

IP: 87.118.122.58

(German IP)

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